All about Daddy Tony / D.F.T.

31 years ago, I began my BDSM&Kink journey. In the 31 years, I became a skilled with a flogger, an expert spanker, and a big fan of all things bondage. along the way, I explored pretty much every other kink/fetish as well, from CBT to ABDL to to puppies and furries. I have had the honor of having some of the greatest mentors who taught me so much, I am forever grateful for the knowledge and expertise these men and women gave me.

In the last 31 years, While living in San Francisco,I created a spanking and flogging booth at Dore Alley Street Fair in order to draw attention to the HIV Prevention Program booth next to me, many amazing memories from the 12 years I produced that booth. For the same agency, I facilitated many safer sex and king/bdsm educational workshops, everything from Spanking to Fisting, to how to fuck safely in the middle of the HIV epidemic. In 2002 I competed and won the title of "San Francisco Leather Daddy XX" I used this platform to continue educating the SF Queer community on all things related to BDSM and Kink. In 2009, I met the boy who would become my husband, Mikey, AKA @bndgkid who has taken me on the bondage and kink journey that dreams are made of for the last 16 years. We now live in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, are in a happily open marriage, and are continueing to cultivate and nurture our Kink/Fetish family around the world.

Other interesting facts about D.F.T.

In addition to being a former SF Leather Daddy title holder, I have performed Stand up Comedy up and down the west coast, (retired..mostly) I have a day named after me in San Francisco, I'm a former member of the 15 Association, I have worked in the HIV community for the past 25 years. I am the co-founder and co-host of the podcast "No Safeword", a educational kink related comedy podcast.

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